What is Prayer?

(I wrote this some time ago as more of a devotional and wanted to share it with anyone who may be able to relate.)

Psalm 5:1 “Give ear to my words, O Lord, consider my sighing.”

Have you ever been so angry frustrated or grieved that you were at a loss for words? Instead we sigh or groan or scream to God. Could emotions expressed without words be considered prayer?

There is a motivating picture of war painted for us in I Chronicles as the Reubenites, the Gadites and the half-tribe of Manasseh—44,760 able-bodied men ready for military service, war against four opposing tribes. As the war ensues, God hands their allies over to them “because they cried out to him during the battle. He answered their prayers because they trusted in him(I Chronicles 5:18-20)."

Imagine this bloody war scene with 44,760 men crying out to God -- cries in the thick of war, imploring God to come to their aid. I am convinced that their prayers were not proper, pretty prayers spoken with eloquence. They could have only been loud cries of desperation from grown men who realized their humanity and feared for their lives. As they fought, shield in one hand, sword or bow in the other, there was no denying that the only hope they had was God.

In times of great desperation, great pain, or grief, our prayers become cries, screams, groans or sighs; and sometimes complete silence or body-wrenching sobs.

In Guerillas of Grace, Ted Loder’s perspective of prayer puts it this way,

“How shall I pray?
Are tears prayers, Lord?
Are screams prayers,
Or groans
Or sighs
Or curses?
Can trembling hands be lifted to you,
Or clenched fists
Or the cold sweat that trickles down my back
Or the cramps that knot my stomach?
Will you accept my prayers, Lord,
My real prayers,
Rooted in the muck and mud and rock of my life,
And not just the pretty, cut-flower, gracefully arranged
Bouquet of words?
Will you accept me, Lord,
As I really am,
Messed up mixture of glory and grime?

As God’s children, we are not left alone in our battles and our weaknesses, “In the same way, the Spirit himself intercedes for us with groans that words cannot express (Rom.8:26).” God hears our sighs and our groans, as the Spirit intercedes for us in accordance with God’s will.

In the messy battles of life, our cries and groans are lifted to heaven as we surrender our will to His. When the battle becomes so dark that we fear we will not be left standing, He hears us and answers our prayers. A breakthrough happens as we break down and trust God with every ounce of our being.

Even in our darkest moments, we are not alone.

We shall stand--shield in one hand, sword in the other, as God's fearless warriors.


Today’s Prayer: “Father, there are times when I pray and I have no words. The weight I carry can only be expressed with sighs and groans as I still myself in Your presence. Sometimes in silence I cry out to You. Holy Spirit, thank You for interceding with groans that words cannot express. Without You, I would be left without hope. Sometimes, in the middle of my battle, I am weak and unable to stand. In my weakness You reveal Yourself to me time and again with both strength and gentleness. Father, Your unfailing love shakes me to the core. In dark moments when I have nothing to offer, You still hold me in the arms of Your faithful love. I am truly a messed up mixture of glory and grime. May my confidence rest on Your character and not on my circumstances. I am desperate for more of You. In Jesus name I pray, Amen.”

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Sheila Cote